Monday, December 9, 2013

Education: A necessity or an instrument of progress?

It has been so loooong since i last blogged! :DD and i must say, I think my writing skills are getting a bit kind of rusty? hahaha anyways. I have come up with another controversial issue regarding the magnificent world of education! a place where teachers, instructors and professors dwell in... But as time passes and things change, how does it affect the society regarding education as one of the factors that are affected by change, especially as how view it?


Education, a simple word that in nature is defined in its general sense, is a form of learning in which the knowledge, skills, and habits of a group of people are transferred from one generation to the next through the process of guiding, teaching and instructing. Education can be taught through the guidance of others or through educational systems such as schools, institutes and universities. It is not a matter of privilege or right for an individual to attain education in the position on which you learn from a professional, for you attain knowledge and wisdom even from the very people who have raised you, yet the knowledge on which you attain is limited and may not be able to fully develop or progress itself when not nourished with following factors to further advance your knowledge in society, politics, linguistics, mathematics and many more subjects and courses you desire to take up. But that is a different story, it is not a matter if education is a privilege or a right, for in this essay, I have a topic to discuss which is in the same sense as that, yet overlooked by many as time moves on for it has already changed the view of schools and universities, and most of all, the people.

When you say you want to study, what are the possible objectives you have and what courses are you willing to take up in order to attain these objectives? Secondly, when you ask your parents why they are willing to let you or have you study, what are the things that they will say? “In order for you to have a better future.” “We want you to study in order for you to get a job and live as you please.” These are common answers you will get from them because it is how they view education, which is not wrong in any sense or perspective, yet they view it as a necessity, a need or requirement of the youth as if it were the pass or clearance in order to accomplish a good and valuable future. As I was on the process of creating this essay, I took the time and liberty to randomly ask a few students of the Adamson University whom I did not know, why they are currently studying and what are the reasons or goals they have in mind when they are able to graduate. I did not write any document about it or create a survey as if it was a project; I simply asked them as a fellow student and child. According to most students in a valid tally of 20 from Adamson University, 12 students have straightforwardly answered that they are currently studying in order to attain a diploma or degree, 4 have replied to the question with the answer of just graduating and finding any job available, while the last 4 have told me that the only purpose was to reach or achieve their desired jobs or professions. Which were also not wrong, but in a sad circumstance, they are missing the point of what education is and what is its sole purpose in our lives! But in order to fully understand the controversial issue of this, we must first differentiate the two.

Is Education a Necessity or Instrument of Progress? In some sense, you may say that these are two different things in manner, yet, in my perspective, these are just two stepping stones on which one is accomplished, while one is failed to be done. As we all know, education is the foundation of any nation. It is a necessity for all. This is simply explained because as an individual with no education or lack of education cannot be active in the society. People grow with a better understanding of their immediate environment, for education creates awareness as it regenerates the way of thinking of an individual as they attain more knowledge because one understands what to do in order to enhance good living and alternatives to things that lack. But let us further open our area of discussion to the current state of our country, including politics. Poverty, corruption, and lack financial stability, these are some of the many factors that affect a person’s understanding of what is education and its role in the society, and with that, we start to discuss education as a necessity. With the current state and well-being of our government, the lack of availability for jobs, financial problems and difficulty in the economy, education has become a form of escape for most people! They say with a diploma or degree, you will be able to find a job or respectable profession. This type of perception of education encouraged competition and individualism. It has become a means by which one avoided manual gullible labour or any form of disrespectful occupation. Education has become a passport to the cherished white collar job such as accountants, engineers, architects and other careers that has a high pay and security, most of all, a status. In other words, it was a means by which one rose towards more valued positions and rewarded in society. This way of education had an important social mobility function which was still well known to parents all over the world, thus, becoming the major motivation force of educating students. Education is similar to technology, in a point where it does not stop in progressing and widening, it continues to evolve as science does and has no actual permanence for many more things are created and discovered as time passes. So, the values and attitudes that prevailed in the past are difficult to be entertained in this kind of contemporary world. Now in the era of economic development, the education system has changed, from designed to select the good and supress the bad behaviours, it has grown to become a newspaper, only to update us on what is modern or discovered in our world that will bring much help to us in the following centuries or generations. Going back to the topic of education as a necessity, it has a modest summary:  When we regard education as a necessity, it only serves to prepare people for change. These changes may be in politics, economy or society in general. Education in a viewpoint on where it is a necessity in life, only serves the purpose to satisfy interests, hobbies or simply a past time and are only goal points to achieve a financially secure life. Especially with the current nationwide problem of job unavailability in the country, the educational system, in most people’s view, only has one purpose, to allow their children to have a decent job.

When we regard education as an instrument of change in this context, we mean that the school should help children or fellow students to accept and develop values that are appropriate to our kind future; this means that our children or fellow students must accept pragmatic values of education. In this particular part of the discussion, we are now referring to education as an instrument of progress. This now serves as a second stage of necessity, for some students, sometimes education itself is not really enough for one tends to create change itself, or nonetheless be a part of it. When one is likely to partake in this kind of path in life, they take a step forward. As I have stated earlier, these are just two stepping stones on which one is accomplished, while one is failed to be done, because when you have achieved education in a reason of necessity, most would stop at that point and will disclose to the idea of further development because they have already attained what they needed to have a good and fortunate life. But as one takes a step further in the path of life, they are now vulnerable to what lies ahead and open in the arms of victory of success! When we view education as an instrument of progress, we are able to accomplish and conquer various objectives. The education system can do several things to help students or youth to adopt education for change values or social progress: It can create unity and cooperation instead of individual advancement in the organisation of its various activities, because one cannot create a difference alone, for you require several hands and support. Through the educational system, a determined individual is able to facilitate the development of a spirit of teamwork, neighbourhood and quality amongst people. The education in schools must help to destroy intellectual pride, to create a society in which the privileged educated do not look down upon the less educated and those with no special abilities. This should be done because arrogance has no place in a world of equal citizens. Education should help produce divergent thinkers who can make judgments and help discover solutions of the community problems in the peculiar situations. It must help to produce people who have special skills which contribute to society’s development and general good of the world. Going back to the topic of education as an instrument of progress, it has a certain summary: You do not study because you want to live a comfortable life, you want to study because you want to change the lives of many, in a sense it is for the well-being of the society. No more corruption, inequality and other various reasons that contribute to the fall of our economy or status of the country, most of all, in order to demolish the negativity and indecent commentaries of other countries upon your own. With this type of goal in mind, you are not thinking little with your view only to the people around you, you are now able to think bigger and aim higher! Teachers teach us history for a reason, it is for us to keep track of the change and mistakes we have done in the past in order we do not repeat these mistakes, because we need to know and appreciate the different stages through which our community passed to be where it is today.

Education as a necessity or an instrument of progress can also be clarified through the example of a critical essay. When a professor asks you to create a critical essay regarding the controversial issues of the society, in what way or method will you create it? Through simple writing of words in an understandable and undeniably safe way on which it will help you complete a requirement because it is only necessary of you that you create and pass an essay? Or through creating it with countless hours of research and devotion in truly criticizing the controversial issue and defending your answer for the professor to be enlightened and be able to understand your viewpoint on the particular topic even amongst the criticizing and disagreement, as long as you prove your point and have a deserving grade?

In my opinion, education should be and must be viewed as an instrument of social progress because it is something that the people have overlooked and forgotten due to the current instability of our economy. People no longer have the need to further their knowledge due to the fact that the present is far more important than the future. I hope I have cleared my opinion on why I have chosen that education should be an instrument of progress, and I have made it understandable why it should be that way. Many people have their obstacles and problems regarding attaining education of course, but as long as you are willing to do it, there is always a way, no matter the circumstances. Life may be unfair but it has the benefits when it involves hard working people. Education can be attained through various ways as long as you are determined to create a change in your life and how you live, not by simply wanting to have something to eat at the table, but thinking of various ways to have something to eat. Education continues to evolve, and so must we, it is our mission to create a better life, not only for ourselves but also for those we cherish and those that are around us. Knowledge is passed on from generation to generation, and it is a privilege to have stored such knowledge, so we must continue to pass it and they will add their own part to it, thus widening their perspective and allowing them to have bigger dreams.



What about you? How have you viewed education so far? Is education a necessity or as an instrument of progress?

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

I feel so Gay!

I’m so sick and tired of having to walk around all alone and I feel really miserable and sober because I have no one to talk to and I don’t have any permanent friends. I’ve stopped hurting myself now, since I’ve become wiser and better over my past encounters.

But yeah… I’m so lonely.

I can’t live without someone with me, I can survive without one, but I just can’t simply live without one. Then I remember I have class later in the evening and it f*cking sucks. I’d be dead by then… all I can think of meeting later is Allan, a gay friend of mine, which is not a bad thing.

I truly support this kind of topic on which a male person would seek the companionship of someone in the same sex than someone in the opposite sex. Not only will they be happy in the path on which someone with their similarities and thoughts are in their grasp, but it also leaves more women, for the rest of us. (I’m bisexual.) But now, I prefer a male companion, (Which is apparently too busy for me.) and what is very delightful about Allan is that, he has a boyfriend! Which is way cuter in my part.

It’s not bad to see things differently than others, they say it’s a disgrace because you are countering what God has given you and the role of what you should be doing with your gender! But no, it’s not, it’s not a disgrace, because there is a saying: 

‘Everything has a purpose.’ 

And the purpose of this saying is to evaluate and guide us that we have roles and mission in life on which we are not aware of yet. Why would God give you the consciousness to distinguish what you truly want to be if He did not give you a good apparent reason why you think differently in the gender category? Everything has a reason.

It’s okay to be gay, bisexual, lesbian or whatever, as long as what you are trying to achieve with it is right. Love has no boundaries nor does it have any rules. Have you ever gone to the bookstore and saw a Rule book about Love? (“Love: The Do’s and Don’ts.” No such thing, believe me.) No! That’s exactly my point.

If God had unconditional love for us, then why would He see us as monsters if He himself created us? We are His children and He is not ashamed of us. Especially if He thinks His son is gay, or His daughter is lesbian. All he wants for us is to be happy and our happiness is the road for us to attain a better life on which we have fulfilled His mission for us. I think Allan is awesome because he’s kind and funny, he’s a bit shy but that’s okay. He’s not ashamed to tell who he is and I am not shunning him for that because I enjoy his company!


I think the church should swallow for having to limit the conditions of love and to whom you should give it. We are our own people and we have every right to do what we want, most definitely in the passion we seek to be with someone who ever and whatever the circumstances, and as long as it is innocent and pure.

It’s just a shame and very sad how people put labels on people when we’re all the same. We may all look different, but we are still human beings, and having to insult or hurt other people for being who they beautifully are is just… just sad. Really sad. 

We have hearts; we have feelings, and having to tell people the one flaw they have when they themselves know it just hurts. It just shows how blunt and hollow you think for judging people’s true selves by the things that make them different.


Monday, November 4, 2013

My Insecurities and Discomforts on Love. (Self Postie?)

Love life.

I'm not particularly into the whole relationship thing (yet.) since I've just gotten myself out of a really bad relationship! But I do have a crush... He's one of those popular kids and smart badass people who get to do what they want! And me? I'm just a typical blogger with short hair, dark skin and failed creation of a fusion of an introvert and a teenager. He's popular! So? He meets girls way skinnier and prettier than me everyday!! THAT'S IT!

Don't read this blog because it's about me now, not you. I have problems too ya know?

I'm just one of those left over options you pick out from when all the pretty babes are dead and rotting. Or worse, are all used up.

What hurts is that everyday, my heart skips a beat when I see him pass by or at least just steal a glance from him! It's so weird and frustrating since he passes by in front of me and i just stand there looking stupid with my drool dripping since he's so hot in my eyes!! DAMMIT!

Anyways, the point of this stupid little post is that I have been constantly trying to look pretty even when I'm never gonna be pretty! Just for the sole purpose of him to notice me. Why?

  • I have short hair. Count all the hot and pretty girls you see that has short hair. Yeah. Not so many right? And what sucks is that my hair does not suit me. At all. It's flat at the end and it goes to a style where it looks like an ax. It's not even up to my shoulders since all the gorgeous women out there are all nice and curly long haired. I'm a stuck up down girl that has the most terrible hair due to the outcome of a bad breakup and decision making!
  • I'm dark. Yeah I'm sick of that 'exotic look.' or that 'Black Beauty' Shit. I have scars on my face and where I come from, being white is the new black. When you're a whitie, you are considered as a passing to a perfect score on the hotness meter.
  • I have stubby big legs. With scars. Which is worse! I'm not overly confident of my body, I'm not voluptuous or sexy or skinny... I don't know what type of body suits me! And worse, I have no sense of fashion. I wear what I wear. 
  •   The confidence is oh so low that flo-rida doesn't stand a chance against me! (thus, the creation of the blog.)

Get my point?
I have no excuse. I'm bound to be left out since all my friends are blockmates and I'm irregular and forced to talk to people that will probably look at me as if a wookie spoke to them and they wanna escape!

Meh. I had no hope anyway.

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

The peer pressures of Society

I have taken into account that most of my readers are into the helpful guides and society issues throughout the world. 2 top leading blogs with most reads or views is "Language Barriers on Blogs." "Walk the Walk, but can you Talk the Talk?" Which is about the usual barriers or obstacles a regular person would feel or experience in day to day life! So I decided to do a little blog about the Peer pressures of Society.

I have experienced the seriousness of this issue when I was getting ready to go to the mall with my family. I thought well of my outfit, which included a red checkered long sleeved polo, with the sleeves neatly folded above my elbow, and a pair of acid washed shorts and black flat shoes. I thought it was pretty cute considering the fact that I saw it online and thought, 'Wow, that would definitely suit me'

So I take a bath, feeling refreshed and full of confidence, I twirl around in front of my mirror and sing along to a tune as I put on my clothes and adored myself! But then the peer pressure kicks in.

"People might think my legs are big."
"They might think this style is out of time."
"My hair is too short for these clothes."
"They might think I look stupid."

So unfortunately, I remove my clothes, look at my reflection and notice every possible flaw I see in myself and just slither under my blankets.

That is the power of peer pressure, where upon influences from other people get to you and instead of them judging you, you take the privilege and thought of judging yourself based on your insecurities and flaws, not on your beauty and well-being of what you truly are. These kinds of pressure comes from several sources:


  1. Expectations.
  2. Disappointments.
  3. Casualty.
  4. Low self esteem.
These are the top factors of my pressure among the other hundreds of other factors out there. Expectations from my parents that I find hard to achieve. Disappointments in my life that I received from people who had expectations. Casualty of life that I created from bad decision making and rash thinking. Low self-esteem from my own self, considering that I myself is my own weakness and metal ball with chain.

First off, these things are natural. They occur in our lives on which we develop ourselves to take necessary actions in order to improve ourselves. But then again, they have a downside on which people who are victims of peer pressure fall into the abyss on which they no longer try, somewhat leading to depression. Most cases talk about suicide. But with a great amount of help, you can accomplish anything, as long as you set your mind on it and let nothing stop you!

How?

First off, have a bunch of friends you can purchase in your local store. Hahahaha! Just kidding. :) It's important to have people who will catch you when you fall, especially in dire times where you really need advice and confidence.

Second, Do not do everything that your friends tell you. Remember, they're just advice. Words or sentences in purpose to serve as a guide or suggestion, sometimes opinion on the necessary action you have to take whenever in pressure. Do what you think is right and proper and allow yourself to be responsible for what you are facing through. Because, what doesn't kill you makes me stronger.

Third, allow yourself to grow from these things and create a better you by sharpening your character! Gain confidence, don't allow expectations to bring you down and have a good hand of people that will support you when needed! Have fun and don't let obstacles bring you down to hell, because death is not an option. You're just beating God in his own game. Live life with your happiness and let your happiness affect other people in a positive way!

The End. :)


Just Scars in Wattpad

Hi! I just started a wattpad story just for enjoyment's sake! :)

Click here to read it!

Summary: 

Danielle is an average teenager and ideal blogger. The type that would fit any normal girl. Like most, she has a boyfriend that's always by her side as faces her family everyday! A true to life story, Danielle envelopes herself from the world and becomes wiser as she confronts tomorrow with head up high. But what will happen if depression suddenly takes her over, and might cost her her life?

I just copy pasted what was written on the summary so... Yeah. I created this story in order for the average teenager,mostly those that are in the depression side, to shine a light on them and be able to see that what they're doing (harming themselves, suicide...) is not the answer! It's just a series of chains of mistakes that allow us to develop ourselves and give us wisdom by learning from our mistakes, that there is an answer to everything and that we realize the true beauty of ourselves that we forget to appreciate!

So try reading it for a change..
It's actually based on true events. So you can be assured that it's not bullsh*t. :)

Monday, October 28, 2013

My bad case of Philophobia.

It may seem like a pen work, but it's not, since I have taken a bath everyday and it has not left the premises of my body.

Ever since I experimented on my mom's things in order to create a temporary tattoo, I have written the word Philophobia on my left hand. It's not a pen work okay!?


It's in mirror setting.
I had no idea how to fix that picture... Anyways. Philophobia means: fear of Love.
I have had a bad impression on Love in my relationships. Expecially when I got hurt. So I try my best to avoid having relationships. I mean, I'm a bookworm and all, and I read how love has affected people in beautiful ways! But I'm having a hard time being convinced that my lovestory will end the same... I also have another one near my ankle,


It's in mirror setting too.
It says Pistanthrophobia. Pistanthrophobia means: trust issues due to experience from bad relationships, fear of trusting. Then again, yeah, I'm having a hard time trusting a person who says, "Your eperience with me will be different!" or "Things will be better with me in you life." Yeah.... I'm tired of that shit.

Look, I'm not making this blog just to brag my stupid pen tattoos cuz I'm too scared for the real thing. I'm here to discuss the topic of relationships.
Like me, I do my best not to get tangled up in men's issues, or more likely, their life. But that does not mean you have to force yourself not to fall in love. That's bad. I have learned a great deal of things through my horrible relationships! And these are things that you can apply in life! (how you can't expect men to like girl movies, vice versa.)

I made this blog for the person who recently opened up to me about her fear of being rejected because she has fallen in love with a person who will never see her as a woman. Her teacher. (You're not the only one, babe.) I know that there are soooooo many boundaries and obstacles that are stopping you from the man of your dreams! My professor just made a note about that on facebook, (the same prof who created 'The Uncertainity of Tomorrow' from my Blog 'Casuality and Life'.) But don't let that stop you! You have to tell that person your feelings, or else they'll just keep growing and growing until you pop! Don't let fear stop you like what it did to me.

If you're able to tell that person how you feel, then you'd have a good conversation about how things are supposed to be done. How it may affect your life and what are the probabilities of the relationship you are entering... You might get rejected, yes, but now you are open to why you can't be together.

I know you made fun of my home done tattoos, and I forgive you, (you little sh*t.) that's why I'm dedicating this blog to you. Don't let fear stop you from doing what you want and what you need to do. Use your courage to tell your attraction to that person and allow yourself to look at others with the same eyes you used to look at your crush. :) If not, I can always give you the link or the note of what my professor created in the circumstances why your teacher or professor crush can't be in a relationship with you. just message me!

Walk the Walk, but can you Talk the Talk?

Imagine this...

You are walking along school grounds, new semester so new you! Gotta make some hot new friends, so we gonna have to look good and rad, baby! So as you were walking along the streets to adulthood and popularity, you see a nice candidate for being your friend. So you walk up right to him (or her.) and play it cool...

Then you decided to talk, "Me (your name), You Friend!"

*Loud crashing noise* Cave man much?

Nah I'm just exaggerating! But really, having to talk to people, sucks! Most of all when you know you're not really that social! You are like the muchness of blogging and being an introvert! You can literally write a book on how moving the mouse is your only exercise! Let me guess, you wear sweat pants and a XXL t-shirt at home, tie your hair in a bun and have cats as your only wanted companion and your sweet heaven is your bedroom.

Now that's just being a stereotype blogger, but you get the point! You're having a hard time talking to people, to be a fact, having a hard time making a friend.

This is normal. By normal, I mean it happens to everybody! You might think you're the only one having a hard time, but most of us have these symptoms, which are:


  • Having to think twice on what you're gonna say.
  • Stuttering or muttering in order to hide embarrassment, or making a fool out of yourself.
  • Simply not talking in order to avoid unnecessary comments or impressions from people.
I know the list goes on and on and on and on! But let's face it, you're just avoiding the thought that people might think you're a weirdo. (Mostly what I'm doing.) But I didn't stand for nothing! I dedicated my life to research! Thesis! and all kinds of science words and stuff just to come up with tips on how to make friends!!


  1. Examine the person. See if that person reminds you of yourself because sometimes, you need to judge people by how they act in order to know if they're good company or someone compatible with you. If not because you follow a morale code of a person who does not judge a book by it's cover, experiment yourself and just try to speak to the person you seem comfortable with.
  2. Thinking of a topic is one of the biggest dilemmas, they not only start a conversation, but also give you an idea on the person's personality! Ask a question. Usual topic starters are like, "Hi, I'm (your name). How old are you?" or "Are you new here?" or "What's you name?" There are a lot of questions! But start simple, something not too deep, just average. What they're favorite color is, where are they from, do they like the things you do... Another technique is the 'I've noticed' type, "Hi! I'm (your name), I've noticed that your..."  just add up! Be creative!
  3. Simply let them notice you. They'll have to notice you somehow and try to speak to you, after that, just go with the flow.

 So those are just some starters on how to make friends, but remember, the moment you seem uncomfortable with them, just let them go. Because friends are supposed to make you comfortable, like you're normal! There are bad influences and people that might abuse you, so be pretty sharp and take control of who you want to be with. You know they're your 'peeps' or 'homies' if they have the same likes and dislikes with you, you help each other through challenges and care about you in a manner similar to siblings. It's all up to you that is, my blog is just advice and a guide because you have the power my friend! But if things don't end well, I'm always here to help you!




Sunday, October 27, 2013

Casuality and Life

So, I had this professor in Logic and he posted a neat note on David Hume and The Uncertainty of Tomorrow. It was nerve wrecking and philosophical! Anyways, what strikes me best was the word causality. How one thing affects the other, or more simply called as "cause and effect." Kinda explains Life.

I know, Life is such a m*therf*cker sometimes, but most times, these are just series of events from bad decision making and rash choices. Your sister hates you because you used her stuff on a temporary emotion. I know, it's my fault, and due to these circumstances, I have the consequence of a dying relationship with her that I am now slowly trying to build once more as time passes by.

These things or events are then called 'mistakes'. A disgusting word for perfectionists and vile for optimists. I have to live with my mistakes, but I never regret them. They are paths to change and a grasp of knowledge. A birth of Wisdom.Though they hurt, they help us learn and make better beings of ourselves. We regret our actions but we do not regret our consequences, but saddened because they are the outcomes of our insolence and stupidity. Things we are not or never proud to mention.

We all make paths for our life. Sometimes you'll think that you're not good enough. You'll think that no one will ever accept you for what you've done. Due to these things we lose people we love, we cared about, things that mattered and held so much for you... Ahem. But what's important is what it does for you, because everything has a reason. The people you meet, the things you gain and lose... The consequences may be too much, but we need to face those things and hop for the best. If better, we have another chance to fix things right again.

These things don't matter anymore. We forget the events to forget the pain, but they leave scars on us that will forever remind us of the things we weren't proud of. But it's time we stop thinking about them and forgive our self. Because that's what matters most.

In my Opinion that is.

Saturday, October 26, 2013

Weirdness Level over 900000!

Okay. I've had so many people call me 'weird'. Which is at the same time offensive and a compliment. Maybe that's the problem why I have trouble talking, or making friends, or just plainly be around students. Or teenagers... People. I mean, I'm called weird, all the time! By my sisters, friends, not-so-close friends, even strangers. And let me tell you that (based from experience.) that I find it offensive, and hurting. It's like you're asking us why we're crazy. kumbaga, sira ulo.

I know that's not what you meant to portray when you ask that.

But let's face it, we already know we're weird, but you just had to ask that and let the obvious be a topic and what's worse, bring it out as a sarcastic, insult of a stupid joke. I know some people don't find it offending, but I do. Especially when I try to talk to people, I find it really hard and frustrating to think of  a topic and have to try and create a conversation with them. When people say you're weird, it's like they're stating that you're not normal, you stand out, you're a freak. You're not one of us and you have some issues and we find it awkward to be with you! And that hurts... A lot. Most of all when the people I thought accepted me for who I am, then they question my behavior as if they never knew I had it in me...

Just for your information, it's not like I wanted to be weird.

I never intended to be. But then again, we are all weird. We know that! We all have these things that are out of the ordinary, behaviors and traits that we find out of place. We are not alone, we may seem different, but there are thousands of other people just like us! Maybe when people ask you in an insulting manner why you are weird, just states the obvious sign that they're not the friends you should have. You haven't met them yet because people will never doubt you, or be awkward with you if they have accepted you for who you are, thus not questioning you of what makes you, you. 

Books vs. Technology. FIGHT! *kampai*

It all started on one nice, rainy day. I was having a boring class in Environmental Science where my fellow students were giving a report that no one besides the professor was paying attention to. I had my earphones plugged in and all that (which was kind of rude.) and minding my own business, when I saw my seatmate was reading a book on his phone. I think it's called an E-book or something... Anyways, I decided to butt in and ask if I could read as well!

And it was horrible.

Not the book (Which was Fifty Shades of Grey), I mean the experience of having to read it on an Iphone! Thus, the topic of the blog today!

*Ding Ding*

Round One! First off, I think books are waaaay better than having to read it on a phone or pad or whatever! I mean, nothing beats that really addicting new book scent. *sniff sniff* ahhhh... And that it's great to feel the paper between your fingertips! Second, what if your phone shuts down or doesn't have enough batteries? BOOM. you're left with no phone, no calls or texts and no entertainment! With a book, you won't have to worry about power. You just read where you left off! Third, books are very original, when you read it on the phone, you're not certain if anybody tampered with what was really written, and you get the feeling that it's a fake!

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Round Two! There are downsides to the stuff I said of course, First off, yeah there's no new book scent, but it's a lot cheaper than having to buy books! You just download it and it's there. Voila. Second, is the bookmarking. With phones, you just exit the app and you're stuck with where you left off! AND, it's very convenient. It's not heavy, it doesn't take up space in your bag since all you need is your pocket!

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Round Three! Books have that special effect where, when you read it in a certain place or a certain time, it kinda preserves the moment! Whenever you get that book out of your shelf, all those memories and those scents suddenly comes back to you and it feels really nostalgic... Second, all that radiation can hurt your eyes! Having to spend so much time in front of LED light or something, can really damage your eyes you know. It's not healthy! Third, nothing compares to the feeling of carrying a tradition with you, we are seriously allowing ourselves to be basked in the culture of reading from fine print.

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Round Four! Books are really inconvenient, especially when it's night time! You can't read when it's dark, with phones, you don't need to bring a flashlight with you or let the light on when you want to read! Second--

That's enough. Because for all I know, when I was creating this Blog, this debate is endless because there are so many possibilities that we can say or share in this kind of topic, especially if you are really determined to defend your chosen team! (TEAM BOOKS!!) and we all have different opinions on this and we have every right to share them. But to my readers out there, please do share to me on what side you're on!! :DD Books or Technology?

*Ding Ding!*

Language Barriers on Blogs

I know this has got to be, one of the many issues when writing, composing or doing anything that has to do with words or languages.

I mean really.

I just checked on the page views I had for 'There's more to life than love. There's more to life than grades.' and i checked the weird graph that came along with it. It stated there the viewers and the country where they lived in. Four of them were from america, one from Ukraine and three from South Korea and one from the Philippines. Well. I forgot where the other one lived. Anyways! The point is, did they understand what I wrote on that blog? I mean, I used English and my native language (Which is Tagalog.) on it and I dare say is that, did they really see the point of the blog they just read?

You see, this is why it's hard for us all to communicate. I mean, we should like, have one universal language or something so whenever we spoke to each other, wherever we may be, we would understand one another and not have second meanings or other interpretations because of the accents and the languages we use! Not only is it a burden or anything, but I think it's a good topic for all of us on how we communicate to others.

I just went on 9gag the other day and I saw this hilarious post about a manly guy who had a Chinese character for a tattoo, but the tattoo meant (sorry for the language,) 'pussy.' It was embarrassing! I mean, what if you had that tattoo and passed along someone who can read it, wouldn't that give them other thoughts? yes, it would. It would give them a bad impression on the person who has the tattoo.  Personally on my opinion, I hate the fact that there's a language barrier on us, especially for bloggers. I have a spanish follower on my Tumblr and whenever she reblogs a post, even if it might seem funny, I can't understand it and I have to open up Google translate just to decipher her post!

It's exhausting and frustrating. :( Not does that only stop us from communicating with others, and allow ourselves to be open to the people that we're missing out on, but it gives us the wrong idea of the people we live in! Especially for those who are misjudged and tormented by how they talk, or how they're different! Sigh.

I'm sorry. I'm just so frustrated and hurt!

But let's not be rash here.Let's still remain open and try to communicate. Don't be a stereotype and do what the other people do, be yourself and be hospitable. I have no idea what I'm saying anymore, but it just leads us to one thing, Don't let Barriers stop you from doing what you want, if not, try to be mindful of the other people and allow yourself to help them be convenient in the language we use. So from now on, I'm gonna use the English language when blogging, for the sake of other viewers and readers out there. :D

Friday, October 25, 2013

There's more to life than love. There's more to life than grades.

'Grabe ang baba ng grade ko sa ganito!'
'Dapat ganito ung grade ko sa ganyan!'
'Dapat nagaral pa ko ng ganito ganyan!'

Seems familiar?

yan ang usual sentences na naririnig natin sa mga grade conscious na kaklase nten. (lalo na sa mga nagsabi na 'di daw' sila grade conscious.) Tipong tapos na ung quiz nyo may iba pa silang aaralin. ung madali na ung quiz magaaral padn. :/ walang buhay teh? I know that studying is REALLY important. That grabes really matter! But there's a choice of a healthy challenge we get from school from having to stress so much on studying that you break down and cry because of it. They're just numbers. Di umiikot ang mundo sa pag-aaral mo. As long as it's balanced. Enough time to study, enough time to enjoy life.

One more thing about that is, aral muna bago love life. Who are you kidding?! come on. What does that have to do with studying? "wala na kasing time para mag-aral kasi iniintindi mo si bf o si gf." "ayaw nya kasi na di ko sya pinapansin." BRO. ANU BA YAN. wag mo kasi paikutin mundo mo sa iisang tao. di lang nman kasi sya ang importante. Wag ka makipagrelasyon kung hindi mo kaya mabalance ung mga responsibility mo tsaka ang taong mahal mo. Atsaka kung mahal ka nya, iintindihin nya na kelangan mo dn magaral, if better, tulungan ka nya sa pag-aaral mo! Love is having to share the burdens and help each other to grow no matter what happens, even if you move apart or not! There are people that purposely try not to have a love life even if it's the person they really have because of their studies. No man, that's wrong... Lahat tayo nakaka-experience ng ganyan at dapat alam na natin ung gagawin sa ganyan. Balance lang yan. Let yourself enjoy these things and become open-minded in the things that we may never experience when we get older, because you'll end up regretting it in the end.

I'm not trying to be a bad influence or anything.

All i'm saying is that, a college degree does not assure you a job.

Enjoy life as it is and allow yourself to see the things that you never knew was there. Wag lang ung sobra okay? Like i said. Balance. Be a kid while you can and be an adult to what matters. Have fun and enjoy yourself to pleasures and explore to where your heart takes you. Study because you need to, not because you have to and because you want to.

to those grade conscious students who complain about their already passing grades, try to be content with what you have and be sensitive to those who weren't able to attain that grade. Be humble, because literally, some students are insensitive to the other students who failed. Don't complain okay? Just be happy that you passed and look forward to doing better in the next test. :) There are more things that matter than those that revolve around in the academic world.